Being a Softhearted Person is not Easy !

People with soft hearts are extremely sensitive. They are among the best people in this harsh planet, but having a soft heart is a weakness and is useless in the modern world. These people are too good, but sometimes injustices in the world happen to them. Being a kind person in this cruel world is difficult as, no matter how nice you are, you may always be replaced and criticized by others, who will judge you based on their wants and mood. I have firsthand experience with this type of individual and have learned that they are compassionate and extremely sensitive.

They feel more deeply

People who are highly sensitive feel things very deeply. They are like detectives, always trying to figure things out. They are humble and kind, never wanting to hurt anyone. When someone does them a favor, they feel really grateful and may even get overwhelmed. And guess what? They never forget even the smallest favor someone does for them.

They take things personally

Taking things personally isn’t good, but for softhearted folks, it’s quite common. They find it hard to let go of things easily. These individuals think with their hearts before their minds, they mean everything what they do or what others do. Where in this world you must ignore most of the things and mind just your way to live happily.

They are more emotionally reactive

People who are highly sensitive react a lot in situations. Every emotion means a lot to them. They cry easily when someone yells or does something wrong, or even when things get a bit tense. They use up all their tears, and they really dislike being emotional in front of others. They feel upset about arguing or fighting.

They always overthink about everything

Overthinking is not a big deal for them. They keep thinking and thinking, sometimes even overthinking. This happens because, as softhearted people, they’ve already experienced the tough realities of this world. They try to be strong, but it’s not easy for them. When making decisions, they take a while because they carefully consider every possible outcome in that situation.

They carry the burden of world

They always feel like they carry the weight of the world because they feel a lot, take things personally, and sometimes get too emotional or think too much. They try to make everyone happy, but it’s not possible because not everyone likes the same things. They often think about others and are really affected by what others say or do.

They always stand for others

They always try to understand others. They have a lot of empathy and care a lot about a friend’s problems. They also worry about how someone might be feeling or reacting towards them or anything else. They feel sad for anyone who needs help, whether it’s with their health, money, or in any situation. They are really kind and always ready to help.

They’re extremely detail-oriented

These individuals pay a lot of attention to details in their lives. If you ask them how they spend their time, they won’t just mention a hobby or a specific task—they’ll share every little detail of every minute. They also like getting detailed information when they ask about something. They can explain things very well and are good at describing anything. Plus, they are polite and keep things well-organized.

They over apologies for everything 

Softhearted people are usually very genuine. When something happens, they tend to apologize a lot. They see the world in a similar way to themselves and sometimes end up with a broken heart. Even when it’s not their fault, they might apologize. When something goes wrong, they play the blaming game, pointing fingers at someone, themselves, or even at God.

They’re more prone to anxiety or depression

These softhearted people tend to think a lot, feel things deeply, and are emotionally sensitive, which can make them feel even weaker. This leads to stress, anxiety, and sometimes even depression. They see themselves as victims of bad luck. Even though they want to face the world with courage, their natural way of being holds them back. They always need someone strong to support them and help them overcome these feelings.

They love solitude but not all softhearted people are introverts

They enjoy being alone because it’s the only way they can be happy and peaceful. When they’re by themselves, no one judges or makes them feel bad, either directly or indirectly. However, it’s true that they still need at least one person to talk to and share their feelings with. Interestingly, research shows that about 30 percent of highly sensitive people are extroverts, but those who are extroverted might feel more hurt.

– Love & Peace-
Kriti @Brightway